Seek not that the things which happen should happen as you wish; but wish the things which happen to be as they are, and you will have a
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tranquil flow of life.
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Whoever then wishes to be free, let him neither wish for anything, nor avoid anything which depends on others: if he does not observe this rule, he must be a slave.
Let death and exile and every other thing which appears dreadful be daily before your eyes; but most of all death: and you will never think
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of anything mean nor will you desire anything extravagantly.
When you are going to meet with any person, and particularly one of those who are considered to be in a superior condition, place before yourself what Socrates or Zeno would have done in such circumstances, and you will have no difficulty in making a proper use of the occasion.
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The condition and characteristic of an uninstructed person is this: he never expects from himself profit (advantage) nor harm, but from externals. The condition and characteristic of a philosopher is this: he expects all advantage and all harm from himself. The signs (marks) of one who is making progress are these: he censures no man, he praises no man, he blames no man, he accuses no man, he says nothing about himself as if he were somebody or knew something; when he is impeded at all or hindered, he blames himself: if a man praises him, he ridicules the praiser to himself: if a man censures him, he makes no defense: he goes about like weak persons, being careful not to move any of the things which are placed, before they are firmly fixed: he removes all desire from himself, and he transfers aversion to those
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things only of the things within our power which are contrary to nature: he employs a moderate movement toward everything: whether he is
considered foolish or ignorant, he cares not: and in a word he watches himself as if he were an enemy and lying in ambush.
Check (punish) your passions that you may not be punished by them.
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If you wish to be well spoken of, learn to speak well (of others): and when you have learned to speak well of them, try to act well, and so you will reap the fruit of being well spoken of.
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Nothing is smaller (meaner) than love of pleasure, and love of gain and pride. Nothing is superior to magnanimity, and gentleness, and love of mankind, and beneficence.
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No man is free who is not master of himself.
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When our friends are present, we ought to treat them well; and when they are absent, to speak of them well.
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